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Beautiful Things

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I love you Mummy letter

I have been silently vowing to myself that I will spend more blog inches focusing on Elliot and Lilia. Looking back over the posts, they seem sadly neglected, often included in what I'm writing, but without the spotlight actually falling on them, which doesn't really accurately represent the real dynamic in the family. In 'real life', the spotlight is constantly moving, with each child getting their time to shine as necessary. Wishing to redress the balance a little I was all ready, posed like a cat about to jump into the warm spot that you just left on the sofa, ...

Normal family life at my place…

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Normal family life at my place...

So here it is, my very first go at setting a blogging challenge for my creative blogging friends. For a bit more background into what this is all about have a read of this. To start things off I would like to share a series of pictures from the dusty depths of my computer. For those people that have read my blog for a while, you may recall me referring to Dominic having eaten Lilia's homework before. Believe it or not, his situation isn't a one off- leave a book lying next to him and he'll ensure the ending remains a ...

Sometimes Mother Knows Best

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Sometimes Mother Knows Best

Sometimes the things that once hurt the most become the source of most joy. I've got used to hearing about everything that Dominic can't do, and I can honestly say that I find it easier to stomach after 5 years practice than I did when I was more of a novice at this. It doesn't mean that I get any less satisfaction in proving people wrong though. You could say it's one of my favourite hobbies, not the most endearing of qualities admittedly, but I do think that the smug look suits me, so I try and wear it as ...

Stop Wishing for Normal

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Dominic smiling in his pram with a nasogastric feeding tube
My early memories of motherhood ranged from being amazed, and slightly repulsed, by how much baby sick it is possible to pool in your cleavage at one time and the apparent disregard that baby poos apparently have for gravity and claims of absorbability from nappy companies, as they stain your baby’s back, and your last clean babygrow, bright mustard yellow. After all, being a parent is a messy, dirty, exhausting and confusing job and you’re the one responsible for not screwing it up.

Happiness is…

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Dominic Blower photo with quote reminding you to appreciate what you've got

You know that feeling, when you wake up and make a dazed stagger towards the bathroom still half asleep, but conscious enough to dreamily run through the previous night's events in your head? You can enjoy soft focus highlights as you prop your not-quite-ready-to-be-awake-yet head in your hands, your elbows enjoying your bed warmed legs as you sit on the toilet and gather the strength to tackle the day. That was me on the first morning of 2012. My head foggy and uncooperative I sat with my eyes shut for a while recalling the feeling that the night before had ...